online support for parents/caregivers

The Ontario Caregiver's Association offers personal supports like a helpline and 1:1 peer support as well as a large number of written resources, including those for working caregivers and for young caregivers (15 - 25 years old). It is not disability-specific, it appears, but also offers supports for people caring for aging parents, for example. Materials available online often include worksheets, and there are numerous videos as well.

Family Services Toronto offers a weekly support group for parents of adults with disabilities, Wednesdays from 1 - 2 pm. Contact CeliaSA@familyservicetoronto.org for details.

Woodgreen Community Services offers a virtual "parent share" program Thursdays from 10 - 12 (scheduled until June 24, 2021). Zoom meeting ID is 381 033 8838, password is 398851.

With so many groups offering programs, it's a good idea to get yourself on the mailing list for these groups too, including Partners for Planning, Community Living Toronto, L'Arche Toronto, etc. Most organization's websites offer an option to subscribe to receive news via email. That said, there's a lot of information sharing so you may find you hear about the same event from numerous groups.

Specialdads  is "a place where you’ll find helpful resources for dads of children with disabilities". Sign up on their website.

on-line programming and resources for adults

Education

• the Community Access Learning Centre is offering fee-for-service online programming 
• Ontario high school courses are available online from TVO for free
• the Scholastic web site has some activities and downloadable pages
• Merriam-Webster dictionary has a bunch of weekly vocabulary-building activities

Entertainment and Arts

• Xenia concerts are now being offered online, and often include a downloadable booklet of background information about the performance
• the Book Depository (a great resource for buying books of all types) is offering "read together" sessions where authors read from their works, viewable on Facebook or YouTube
• Audible has a variety of free audiobooks as does Beyond Words
• the City of Toronto has a list of virtual arts and culture activities and programs
• the Idea Exchange has virtual programs for kids (including family games and trivia) as well as other resources
• Toronto Public Library has a wealth of resources, including audiobooks, ebooks, and videos; including Hoopla, where you can borrow "digital music, video and comics" for free
• Toronto Public Library also free cultural and literary events, such as author readings - check them out here
• for "click and colour" pages, check out https://www.thecolor.com/, https://www.online-coloring.com/, or https://colormandala.com/

Social Programs

• the Miles Nadal Jewish Community Centre (https://www.mnjcc.org/access) offers a variety of programs (typically for up to age 30) for people with disabilities and their families

Virtual Programs

• There's a calendar of virtual (online) events (province-wide, not all are open for registration, and you can't click on an event to view details about it) as well as a lengthy list of links to other resources available on this page on My Community Hub.
• The monthly TorontoJewish Disability Network newsletter "Stuck at Home" offers links to a variety of services and resources
• check out Meetup for a group with shared interests near you: these have moved online for the interim
• Dream Weavers Collective offers a variety of virtual life and employments skills, as well as gaming programs, online. Excellent, high-quality programming, in my experience. 
• Reena offers a variety of virtual programs
• Springboard's Discovery Club offer a weekly "Socially Undistant" group that involves exercises, games, and social engagement, which runs Tuesdays through Fridays from 10 - 12:15. Register in My Community Hub.
• Reena is offering online painting programs: contact Grace Ceron for details
• there are lots of virtual tours available: see this Ontario list for just a few
• this organization offers online learning for the "learning disabled workforce"

The always-extraodinary Dramaway is moving all their programming online: if anyone can do this successfully, it's this creative crew  

Brighton Launch/Brighton School offers free Friday night social events from 7 - 8:30 for adolescents and young adults.

L'arche's "Try It For Size" program has a variety of virtual programs, including cooking. Register directly with them. Another group that I highly recommend.

Autism Ontario York Region offers free, short (30 - 60 minute) group activities online

Corbrook offers a regular set of workshops on the themes of money management, health and safety, cooking, self-advocacy, arts and creativity, life skills, and other fun activities. Programs run 1.5 hours and are offered throughout the day. Contact Corbrook to get on the mailing list for ongoing information about what is offered and when.

Corbrook also offers a peer support circle Monday afternoons: contact jennifer.watanabe@corbrook.com or louise.scott@corbrook.com for details.

The WM+A agency now offers a variety of onine services, including wellness check-ins, support with activities of daily living, and support for leisure and recreation options. Call 416.367.5968 or email

Housing and finances: Developmental Service Ontario has a page listing recorded webinars on a variety of topics.

Autism Ontario has a list of online resources, caregiver tips and more on their website.

Fun and Games

• Bamboozle.com/games has lots of games designed by teachers: all follow a similar format and are designed to be played by teams, plus they have options like time limits, elementary school age audience (note: this is a British game, so things like the answers to sports questions can be tricky, and it seems wildly sexist, at least in the game about guessing someone's job)
• although you have to be cautious around the ads, Buzzfeed has some fun Disney quizzes
• love Disney stuff? this site has colouring pages and games
• love bingo? you can use this site to generate a bingo card and to play a game 

Fitness and Wellbeing

• Variety Village has a bunch of exercise videos on their YouTube channel
• there are many Mindfullness videos on YouTube, and if you use a fitness/step counter app on your phone you may find it has links to mindfullness audio files or you can find them online and download them to your phone; also you might want to check out the free Medito app (one of the apps I can't live without) 
• this blog has a series of audio guided meditations of different lengths as well as live streams, and include some items specifically for sleep time
• keeping a daily journal might be a good way for your loved one to share their feelings and thoughts in a safe, private way - I like penzu.com for its simple and intuitive design (it sends positive reinforcement emails if you journal regularly, and gentle reminders if you haven't added to your journal in a while)

Social Skills

• Geneva Centre is offering online social skills groups for individuals of all ages, contact groupservices@autism.netd
• Dream Weavers continues its "Let's Talk About Sex and Relationships" program virtually 

Bring on the consequences!

 I am not a particularly Pollyann-ish kind of person (does that expression date me? of course it does!) but I confess I do find one tiny sliver of positivity in the current mess we are all living in. With so much less of my son's life being scheduled, with programs accessed by booting up a computer at the last minute rather than the usual routine: packing for the day, finding a jacket and hat, waiting for WheelTrans, travelling to and fro, dealing with weather-related and other delays, and so on, there is time  for stuff to just happen. Or, more importantly, not happen, but in a more natural way, without interventions. 

Despite my best intentions, and my attempt to polish my "mean mom" reputation, the reality is that I never really did let my son just miss a day's activities because he wasn't ready in time, or go hungry all day because he failed to make or take his lunch: the consequences for me were more than I was willing to put up with. But now  the world has delivered a whole new world of natural consequences. Didn't get dressed? Be (perhaps) embarrassed on your zoom meeting when you friends see you in your pyjamas. Didn't plan your outing for the day? Guess you'll waste valuable time figuring that out when your helper arrives rather than doing what you actually want to do. Didn't think ahead about lunch or supper for tomorrow? Forage in the kitchen like the rest of us. Admittedly, I have to pretty much tackle my husband, The Great Enabler, in order to execute on this, but I'm giving this a good old try.

A list of COVID-19 related resources

ARCH Disability Law Centre maintains a page summarizing all COVID-related information relevant to people with developmental disabilities.

Vaccination Appointments

• apparently you can text your postal code to 1=833-356-1683 to get a list of vaccination sites near you
• Vaccine Hunters Canada is a very successful grassroots group that helps people find vaccination clinics near them (my daughter got her vaccine that way), follow them on Twitter for real-time notifications

Emotional Wellbeing/Mental Health

• BounceBack Ontario is "is a free, guided self-help program that’s effective in helping people aged 15 and up who are experiencing mild-to-moderate anxiety or depression, or may be feeling low, stressed, worried, irritable or angry." The intro says you need a primary physician referral for some services or may need to self-refer. It offers coaching via phone but also has a series of videos. The site lets you look at resources on a one-time basis to see if they are of use to you.
• Integrated Autism Consulting has pointers to an Emotional Toolbox, an article about Self Regulation during COVID-19, and is offering their programming online: contact them for details
• the Planning Network has a set of tip sheets for "managing the next wave"

Financial

• walk-through of process for applying for CERB
• Financial Relief Navigator provides centralized access to financial aids available during COVID-19
• May 5 there was an announcement of a planned one-time payment of up to $600 for people with a Disability Tax Credit certificate
• submitting COVID-related expenses to My Direct Plan: use the "Other" category and enter "COVID-19 Purchase" in the Service Providers field
• DSO has produced a video that purports to explain the temporary wage increase for support workers

Please consider signing this petition - many parents are concerned that if their disabled child (of any age) becomes ill with COVID-19, they many not receive appropriate supports.

Wellness and Health

• Developmental Services Ontario can help with accessing vaccine clinics - contact covid@surreyplace.ca or call 416.925.5141 x 4444 and leave a detailed message
• for information on vaccine availability and clinics, see this resource
• for current (as of May 2021) information about cloth masks, see this resource
• to access the "Getting Ready for My Shot" resources, see these resources from Surrey Place
• here's a useful social story for use when preparing to receive the vaccine
• here's a Facebook video about preparing to receive the vaccine
• this article addresses mask wearing research 
• this site includes a Family Matters Toolkit for caregivers to use to support their loved one's health and wellbeing
• Surrey Place's About My Health site has a variety of text and video resources to support adults with developmental and intellectual disabilities
• Surrey Place also has some specific COVID-19 resources and tools
• HCAARD has a video on YouTube about virtual doctor's visits
• the provincial government's Health Care Options website offers information about health care services available near you
• the federal government's Wellness Together website says it provides immediate access to phone support for those struggling with stress during COVID; including resources like a "five minute assessment", self-guided courses and apps, and more - you can also create an account to keep track of the resources you have accessed

Other Resources

• HCARDD has a set of booklets, including "easy read" versions, on a variety of COVID-related topics 
• the Planning Network has developed a regularly updated COVID-19 resource kit and resources to help people stay connected
• Sick Kids has put together a good article about supporting children with developmental disabilities during COVID 19
• CAMH has produced a list of COVID-19 self-help booklets 
• The Growing Space (an Australian disability organization) has a variety of resources for individuals - although some of these are specific to Australian funding and services, others are more generally applicable
• Partners for Planning has a list of self-care resources for "managing the next wave"
• some guidance (circa Feb 2021) about masks
• Families for a Secure Future publishes a helpful newsletter with lots of good resources in it - to subscribe, see their website
  
  

Hotlines for caregivers

• Family Services Toronto is offering virtual counselling sessions, between 9 and 6 on weekdays: call 416-595-9618 to book a one-time session of up to 50 minutes with a counsellor
• JVS is hosting a "Parent Talk" hotline for caregivers of people with disabilities of all ages, call 416-649-1808

Resources for caregivers

• Geneva Centre is offering free remote parent groups for parents who are registered with Geneva Centre (contact intake@autism.net  to see if you can register)
• here's a blog posting about accommodations for people with disabilities during a pandemic
• Extend-a-Family's parent support group has moved online,  contact  kc@extendafamily.ca for details
• the Income Security Advocacy Group has use resources about potential income supports on their website
• strategies for supporting individuals with ASD through uncertain times resources 
• here's a useful summary of financial resources that you may be eligible for
• this article deals specifically with supporting children with ASD and has links to other resources 
• Partners for Planning is offering free check-in calls with a facilitator who may be able to offer support and suggestions for resources
• Advocacy Toolkit for Supports During Hospitalization, from ARCH Disability Law Centre
• Autism Ontario has its own list of resources
• Although much of their information is, quite appropriately, related to Australia, this site has some useful resources

Other lists of resources

Several organizations have compiled their own list of resources, which may or may not be covered in the lists above. 

• from Community Living Ontario
• from Autism Ontario 
• from Connectability 
• from Holland Bloorview
• from Reena 
• and here's another list of resources: caregiver tools, mental health, mindfullness and meditation, education, things to do, exercise, live and virtual events, financial assistance, food resources and tools
• and one more list-of-potentially-useful-links for people stuck at home

last updated May 9, 2021

End of Year Passport Submissions

Just a tip when making your end-of-the-fiscal-year Passport submissions (the fiscal year ends March 31): if you have a remaining balance that's less than the amount of the invoice you want to submit, the invoice will be rejected. My Direct Plan support said told me to manually adjust the invoice so that it was a figure equal to or lower than the remainder and submit that version. The system apparently cannot handle partial reimbursements (or do the math that would calculate them). This wasn't a problem for me because I could adjust the invoice received from my support worker to reflect fewer hours and therefore a lower bill. How this would work for people who just have invoices from agencies and the like that cannot be adjusted is uncertain: please let me know if you find a solution to this!

Lessons Learned from Changes to Passport Funding

Just in case anyone else has encountered the same issues I did, some
information that might be useful about Passport funding. 

• Family Services Toronto apparently no longer sends out annual confirmations of funding levels (unless those have changed). if you're not sure, you have to call them to confirm the amount. No annual paperwork is being processed, it seems.
• If you use My Direct Plan, you have to manually add your annual funding into your account at the start of the fiscal year (March 1): it is not automatically updated. Log on to My Direct Plan, go to Account Settings, scroll down to Fund Settings, and enter the annual amount (the rate for KM is 0.01). Note that no matter how tempting it is to enter the amount you actually need, the amount entered here won't actually be granted to you: once you've exhausted the funds allocated, you won't be able to submit additional expenses, no matter what MDP says is your account balance. If you have a submission for the new fiscal year, I'd suggest just going ahead and putting in an amount (say $1000) so you can submit receipts while you're waiting.
• Funding contracts do not appear to be automatically sent out. If you haven't received/signed it, you should probably ask FST to send it to you. Note that they apparently don't keep track of who has or has not signed that contract:despite how much they emphasized that in the funding changes a few years ago, but you should probably still ask for it in case someone actually, you know, checks.
• If you are using funds to pay a worker, the worker has to sign up for an account and you can't actually submit a specific claim for expenses related to that worker until they acknowledge that it's valid, by responding to an email they get sent from MyDirectPlan. 
• The MyDirectPlan support people are great, but they don't know anything about your funding.
• I'm having intermittent issues with messages saying that my submission did not pass verification (it seems to keep forgetting who I am) but when I check again later it seems to be OK.

If you would like to complain about any of this nonsense, I have the contact information for someone who is the interim director of FST and who was responsive the last time I complained.

Resources and programs for adults with developmental disabilities in the GTA

This is just a loose collection of resources others have shared with me or I have stumbled across over the years. Unless otherwise indicated, I in no way endorse or validate these resources.

The social enterprise Help Seeker purports to offer a way to identify service providers (community, health and social services) that are in your geographical area. 

DANI maintains a page of community resources that includes events and activities.

The Prosserman JCC (in North York) offers a variety of recreational and social programs.

Viability "is a neurodiverse team working to co-create brighter futures with neurodivergent people and allies, build community, and transform workplaces, schools, and our broader society in ways that support everyone."

Advocacy

ARCH Disability Law Centre is a great source of information about legal issues and those with disabilities of all types. They have a new Respecting Rights newsletter run by self-advocates that you can subscribe to.

Autism Ontario's "Forgotten" report, although dated, has some useful information.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

This therapy is sometimes recommended for caregivers. Learn more at this blog: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. Or watch this video. 

Communication Supports

If your loved one uses visuals to communicate, and you prefer to work with print-based materials (I'm sure there are endless electronic resources), check out this Visuals Engine. I also like PictoSelector, a collection of neutral, simple line drawings for common activities, including personal care: I used this as lot when my guy was younger.

Community Engagement and Volunteering

Loval love is a great (Toronto-specific) community-based website: they call is "your guide to living well & doing good". It's a potential resource for finding communities to engage with (for example, they have a list of community gardens that welcome volunteers).

Meetup is an online organization that helps people connect with others who have similar interests for events and activities, some of which involve a fee. It strikes me as an untapped resource for community building, with a huge list of areas of interest, and possibly a mechanism for creating your own group for your own special interests.

Connections/Information Sharing

Connected Families is a not very active online resource for discussing matters with other families (you need to set up a login to participate). In my experience, it's mostly professionals who respond to queries or comments.

Huddol is an online support group that seems to focus on general health and wellness, but includes a group for caregivers and individuals with disabilities. I have browsed it a bit and it seems short on practical information but might be useful if you're looking for some virtual connections with like-minded people, perhaps similar to Facebook?

Devices and Tools (adapted devices, sensory items, etc.)

Bridges Canada

Wellwise (Shopper's Drug Mart)

CareEasy (for family caregivers to share responsibilities)

Employment

DANI offers a social enterprise and supported employment program. 

Reach Toronto (located in the west end of Toronto) offers a variety of

youth and adult programs including life skills, financial literacy, employment training and independent living.

The "Completing the Circle program" is offered in several GTA locations and focuses on helping those under 30 who face barriers to employment (not disability-specific).

The Family Support Network for Employment has a variety of useful videos. They offer an online, self-faced "Learning Paths for Employment" program for families. 

JVS Toronto offers a variety of employment programs.

Kerry's Place offers an EmploymentWorks program in different parts of the GTA. The contact person is stephanie.bass@kerrysplace.org, 416-537-2000 x245.

Employers can find resources at https://odenetwork.com/service-agencies/tools-resources. Note that this Oshawa-based organization is not really a resource for families and individuals, but could be useful for families who want to encourage and support employers. The website includes list of agencies who support disabled workers and programs to help prepare for employment.

Job Start: Where Futures Begin is a program for 15 - 29 year olds that offers training and pre-employment workshops, paid placement, and assorted training in a 3 week workshop. They're located at Dufferin and King. Contact Mercy via phone (416) 231-2295 ext. 5723/ 5741 or email m.prempeh@jobstart.org. [added 12/29/19]

A parent has a great blog focused on employment issues for people with ASD or Asperger's: well worth checking out, and includes a self-assessment tool to help people determine what jobs might suit their skills best. For those ready to work, the site also lets you upload your resume if you're neuro-divergent and interested in working from home.   [added 01/04/20]

The Ability Learning Network offers employment supports and skills training. [added 03/07/20]

Woodgreen offers a "Capability" program that offers pre-employment and potential for 12 weeks of paid work experience.. Contact Jessica Singh jsingh@woodgreen.org or 416-405-5292. Office located at Lakeshore and Islington. [added 02/04/22]

Lumenus offers life skills and other programs, including mental health and respite. Services offered in a variety of locations in the GTA, including North York, downtown, and Etobicoke. 416-222-1320 [added 02/04/22]

Financial

The Bright Futures Plan group appears to be a centralized resource for estate planning, Henson Trusts, and the like. [added 090521]

The Planning Network publishes an Estate Planning Guide, as does Community Living Toronto.

Surrey Place hosts the Individualized Funding Library which provides some general guidelines and suggestions around using funding, including hiring workers.

A resource about microboards ("A Microboard is an autonomous group of at least five committed family and friends who join together with a person who has a disability to create a supportive not-for-profit corporation.")

Partners for Planning has an estate guide

General Information

The Ontario Adult Autism Research and Support Network "offers information and communication tools to connect adults with Autism, family members, caregivers, friends, support workers, teachers, administrators and policymakers". Note that it appears to no longer be active, but the historical information can still be useful

Connectability has what is, in my view, a woefully inadequate set of articles intended for adults with ASD or their family members.

Partners for Planning offers a resource "Safe and Secure: Seven Steps on the Path to a Good Life for People with a Disability", available for free (although shipping costs apply).

Housing Resources

Application for Rent Geared to Income. 

In Toronto, the DSO Housing Navigator in Alexandra Shannon. The DSO housing toolkit is found here.

LIGHTS is a Community Living Toronto organization that is involved with independent living for 

LADD is a US-based organization serving adults with developmental disabilities. Although of course their service offerings are not applicable to those of us in Canada, their "Smart Living" program might be replicatable.

This article talks about types of technology that can help people with developmental disabilities live more independently. For a Canadian perspective, see this site.

City of Toronto Housing Plans 

Landlord Connect publishes a weekly list of affordable housing units. (Toronto only)

Ottawa-area lawyer recorded a Housing and Transitions workshop

The DSO has a housing toolkit.

The Toronto Developmental Services Alliance website has a variety of housing-related resources

Reena has a "community residence"

Options for Homes is a social enterprise involved in developing housing.

This website (from a US-based organization) has a good article about person-centered housing

Non-profit for co-housing (Jan 2, 2022)

Independence Skills

Sunflower Developmental Services (sunflowerrcs.com) offers a day program focus on skill development. Ratio of 1:6.  (April 2022)

Individualized and Group Supports

Extend-a-Family offers a variety of services and supports, including Safe and Secure Futures Network family support meetings.

This article discusses pathways to inclusion.

The Individualized Funding Coalition for Ontario has some usefull resources, including, as of  October 2022, a free downloadeable paper about individualized funding. (Nov 2022)

Legal

This resource explains legal capacity and supported decision making.

This resource deals with estate planning and offers an on-screen version of an estate planning guide.

Life Skills

This US-based site (note that this is a paid service or $30 a year) offers videos-based instructions intended to develop cooking skills for people with intellectual disabilities. There's a free 30 day trial. 

Mental Health Resources

Cleaning up some old email and found a link to these resources  provided by HCAARDD. from a virtual course offered early in 2021. Some, but not all, over COVID-specific. Includes supports for self-advocacy, 

Mindfullness and Relaxation Apps

Medito seems like a good offering for Android phones: it is free, has a large number of meditation recordings organized by theme, and includes a timer you can use for independent meditation. Available on Google Play (along with a large number of other such apps).

Outings and Activities (Toronto-based)

This blog lists lots of things to do in Toronto.

Windreach Farm (located north of Whitby) is definitely worth checking out: the people are wonderful, and they offer a variety of programs and events.

Bust a Move: "We provide a safe space for people of all abilities to independently create and express themselves and believe people of all abilities have a voice to make change."

Planning

The Ontario Independent Facilitators Network has an "ideas in practice" site that has some excellent articles. They also offer a variety of resources available on their site and publish a monthly newsletter you can subscribe to on their website, including a list of independent facilitators. You can also connect with them via:

* Facebook 

* Instagram 

* their Ideas Blog

* their Stories Blog

The Empowering Ability website offers a variety of resources including podcasts and training (for supporters and families. Personal view is full marks for enthusiasm, Mr. Goll's style might not suit everyone.

This is one particular video recording of a presentation on planning for a good life.

The BC-based Plan Institute has an online Future Planning tool.

The Facilitation Leadership Group offers "training, coaching, and consultation" at the community level (not disability-related). 

Programs (Day Programs) and Services

DANI offers day programs.

Respite Services has an online list of fee-for-service day programs.

You can find and register for many fee-for-service programs at My Community Hub, which is, in my not-so-humble view, an extremely badly designed site that is frustrating to use. It covers only offerings from agencies funded by the provincial government.

Autism Speaks Canada's "Connections" has a searchable list of service providers that, for Toronto at least, is extremely limited. Note that you need to register to use Connections. Connections also includes a "Communities" discussion group that seems to focus primarily on children, and a "Resources" section for education, funding and other resources, but nothing I'd rely on or re-visit.

The Community Access Learning Centre offers programs as well as staffing.

SAAAC Autism Centre offers a "Living 'N' Learning Adult Day Program", weekdays from 9 to 3

Recreation Programs

Toronto Parks and Recreation offers programs for adults up to age 29.

DANI offers recreation programs.

Respite

New Visions Toronto offers, in addition to residential (group) homes, overnight respite (you must be registered with DSO).

Improving Lives Respite Services offers in-home respite services and services specifically for high-need individuals.

Sunflower Developmental Services offers "after hours" respite (2 hours), located at Ellesmere and McCowan area.

Resources

Helen Sanderson Associates operates out of the UK, but their website has some good resources that are generally applicable, including information and resources for person-centered practices. 

 

Search and Rescue for Autism has content for both families/individuals and first responders. The site offers several free safety-related social stories in PDF form.

The Partners for Planning Network hosts webinars, has a searchable resource directory and a future planning book you can order or view online

The website of Ron Mallis,Toronto area financial advisor who specializes in disability issues (and who my family relies on and vouches for); includes a blog dealing with issues such as finding Henson Trust trustees and much more.

Autism Ontario has a few articles related to those over 18, and a service directory that, the last time I tried to access it, didn't work.

Autism Speaks has a variety of resources related to adults, although some (most?) might be not applicable to Canada.

Connectability has a bunch of resources that I personally feel are inadequate, but they do have a directory of fee-for-service programs. Their online Connected Families resource sounds good in theory but is not very active and seems to mostly be contributed to by service providers.

Autism Speaks offers several resources, although they may be too U.S.-focused to be useful: Community-Based Skills Assessment, Housing and Residential Supports and an Employment Tool Kit.

Autism Ontario's knowledge base, although not specific to adults and somewhat outdated, has useful information around areas of health and volunteering (including an article I apparently wrote!).

Safety

Although I've managed so far with just a cell phone and the Prey software, there are numerous tracking devices out there to help with people who wander. One company offers a "Lifeline with Wandering" product that might be of interest (I have never used this). 

Siblings

Autism Ontario offers virtual meetup groups for siblings of those with a developmental or other disability, including (but not restricted to) autism. To register, click here. [added Dec. 2021]

This is a video from a sibling of someone with a developmental disability. (Note that Partners for Planning also has lots of stories on their website).

Social

Dreamweavers offers social drop-in programs as well as scheduled programs like one that focuses on social skills through playing board games, and another where participants cook and sell snacks (the last two are typically held at the Miles Nadal JCC).

Miles Nadal JCC (Bloor and Spadina) offers several social programs for people with disabilities.

Kerry's Place offers, at their Rusholme Road location, "The Social", a free program for adults with ASD who want to enhance their social skills.

Meetup groups are intended for the general public, and cover a wide range of interests and hobbies in lots of different locations. Might be an untapped resource for both caregivers and the people they care for.

Support Groups

https://www.huddol.com - online support group for caregivers and individuals with disabilities (not sure it's exclusively that, however)

Support Workers and Services

Pooran Law has some resources about legal obligations when hiring support workers.

Once upon a time Respite Services was a great resource for support workers (through their "CHAP" program), but they seem to have fewer workers available these days. You register with them as a family and then can access an online registry of available workers (who have been vetted by Respite Services). They also can connect you with respite workers.

ARCH Disability Law Centre has a whole page devoted to attendant services, what they are and how to get them, along with other valuable resources about respecting the rights of those with intellectual disabilities. [updated 01/02/2022]

Partners for Planning has a new resource guide for hiring support workers. [added 1/4/20]

Software Tools/Apps

In addition to Prey Project, which I use to track my son (well, his phone, which is pretty much always with him), as described in another post, I find these apps useful:

• Go Here, an app produced by Crohn's and Colitis Canada, helps you find the nearest publicly-accessible bathroom.
• There are several transit apps available to help for way-finding, I use Transit.
• I run big parts of my life with a combination of Evernote, AnyDo, and a shared Google calendar for appointments and events to keep everyone in the family informed, Devon has the calendar on his phone so I can put in reminders about WheelTrans pickup times and the like, although this also sometimes means that DVD release dates show up in everyone's calendar.

Awake Labs manufacturers technology for a shared electronic "communication book" (Reveal Stories), which currently appears to be a pilot project.

Transition Programs

Integrated Autism Consulting offers several transition-oriented programs for young adults with ASD in particular, as well as some recorded planning webinars. Although originally operating out of Barrier, they now offer services in several other Ontario locations, including the GTA. 

Volunteering

Volunteer Toronto is a directory of volunteer opportunities of all types, both single events and ongoing engagements. You can subscribe to their electronic newsletter. They are part of a provincial organization around volunteering: